It does not matter if it is 1950 or 2010, 'having it all' is an unattainable ideal. If you want a blazing hot career, having kids is probably not the best idea. If you are dedicated to being a full-time mom, your career is going to the back burner. Men who choose to give up their careers in order to care for their children are in the same gender-equal boat. This is not discrimination, it is life.